As I observe my clients and friends, I notice that in general, most of us tend to be more comfortable with bringing a soft, welcoming and hospitable touch into our homes, but adding a BOLD touch – even just a touch – to their homes causes much more pause.
On the same token, I have noticed that so many people wish they had the GUTS to add some bolder things and bolder colors, that they love, into their spaces.
That is why today, we are going to chat for a little bit about the bold side of our spaces. It is time to find your inner gutsy decorator!
Why do I need guts?
In regards to decorating, or any artistic endeavors, I just love this quote by Adam Lambert:
“”THE ONLY THING NEEDED TO PULL SOMETHING OFF IS THE DESIRE TO PULL IT OFF.”
or, as I REGULARLY say to my clients:
“Sometimes, the only thing needed to create beauty… is GUTS!” {<-tweet this}
So, what in the world do I mean by that?
{image via Decorating Myself}
Have you ever looked at a woman wearing a bold, fantastic necklace and said/thought, “That necklace is SO fantastic, but I could NEVER get away with it. But it looks great on you!!”
I am here to tell you that that is absolutely, positively NOT true.
The only reason why your friend looks so stunning in that gorgeous necklace is that she had the guts to wear it and believe in its beauty. She has no secret formula to looking good in bold necklaces, but she simply has the guts to put it on and be fabulous in it.
How does this matter when decorating?
The SAME concept is true for decorating. Look at the room below. You may recognize it…
{image via BHG, design by Fieldstone Hill Design}
This amazing client of mine has no secret formula for her fabulous spaces, other than the fact that she has the guts to take chances and use things that she simply LOVES in her space. She had the guts. And then she went for it!! {check out her amazing decorating posts here}.
When faced with a decorating decision, she said YES to color.
She said YES to pattern.
She said YES to art.
She said YES to adding in things that make her happy.
She had the guts.
So, how do YOU get these “guts?”
Oh, good news. GUTS are available to everyone. Confidence in yourself, your decisions, and your passions is available to YOU!
Here is the truth of the matter: True confidence comes from the Lord. From KNOWING to whom we belong From KNOWING we were made for a purpose. From KNOWING, deeply, that we are well loved and well designed and created with love.
It comes from believing in who we are because of whose we are.
And guts come when we FULLY embrace this truth: We are not out to please man, but to live for and serve our Father. We don’t have to apologize for bold choices.
Just think of the possibilities: How could that knowledge free your decorating?? {ahem. free your LIFE?}
This God who is the source of our confidence also created us. He gave us our gifts and passions and our eye for the beautiful. Be who God made you to be.
When he made you, did he put a love for fuchsia in your heart?
Good gracious, HE invented fuchsia!!!
You were meant to Design like the Master:
And if you are feeling like making some bold design choices, you will be in some mighty fine Creative company:
{images via The Master Designer Pinterest collaborative board}
Bold does not hold back because of fear.
So, if you love that pink chair, And if you LOVE that chunky necklace, then God gave you an eye to appreciate that bold and sculptural beauty. He is the BOLDEST Master Designer there is.
Recover that chair in fuchsia, I say.
And wear that necklace like you mean it!!
Boldly.
No. Apologies.
With Guts.
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What bold choice will you make in your decorating?
Is it time for you to move forward in confidence?
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Boy this all sounds very familiar,lol. Sometimes we need people we trust to shove us in the right direction.
haha! yes! It is my joy to push you toward a home you love, Christina!
Thank you for this beautiful post! I need that encouragement to be gutsy . . . And you hit it right in reminding us WHO the source of confidence is in both attitude and in choosing to live boldly in color and design! Beautiful, beautiful! What a good (and ” gutsy”) creator is our God!
I do believe this is my very favorite post from you thus far!
Aw, THANKS, tomi!!!
I love color, but have been scared of incorporating too much of it in our home. I have a husband who prefers neutrals, but honestly I know that’s because that’s what he knows. I’m going to try to be bold over the next year to bring in more color, the colors I love, and sometimes they aren’t subtle hits. Great post!
Life is too short not to take chances. I always tell my clients unless they step outside of their comfort zone they will achieve the best interiors. A little bit of paint never hurt anybody!
Wow! Love the way you said this. Beautiful! My insides just got bolder! Now I am balanced inside too!.
Thanks for the post Darlene, this post is really inspiring for me.
So inspiring! We just remodeling a 100 year old home and I am starting to decorate on a limited budget! I really like all of your tips. Do you have a recommendation on where to purchase pillow inserts and pillow covers? Thanks!
Marcie
I took my last leap of going bold, and ordered a poppy moroccan table. Every other bold piece my designer suggested I have loved., so why do I doubt. Some designers are just awesome and know how to work their magic. They truly listen to help you create a space you love. Darlene you rock.
*blushing* Oh, Christina! This comment made me SO happy!! Thank you so much for your words. I will treasure them!
I just love it when a designer I admire turns out to be a fellow follower of Christ!
AMEN!!! This is not at all what I was expecting when I opened the link from Pinterest, but I have been so blessed by your post. I shared it with my husband who is also very passionate about this subject. Thank you so much for sharing!
Thank you SO much, Corey!! So glad you stopped by and shared your thoughts!
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I cannot find that lion print anywhere.
It’s beautiful! Wondering if you could tell me where it’s from?
I’m wanting to be more bold in my decorating
Thank you!
Oh my gosh. I love this so much!!
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